What is a very underrated reason for breaking up from your SO?

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2. At the risk of sounding petty: they don’t 100% love the way you look, even if they try to spin it in a positive way. I mean statements like “she’s not beautiful but I love her personality and sense of humor” or “she’s a 5 on a good day but I guess so am I” or “she’s not what I’d consider my type but there’s something about her”.

   I appreciate honesty as much as one can but in my opinion this is just depressing. Beauty comes in so many different shapes and forms. How can someone not find it in a person they claim to love? To me it basically means your SO is settling for you and will be forever comparing you to some kind of ideal you don’t match.

3. Any reason you want. Breakups don’t need a reason.

4. I think bad mental health can be a big reason for splitting from someone. Nobody tells you how lonely it can get to be with someone who has mental health issues. It can take years for you to understand them & then eventually realise that you can’t help them until they choose to help themselves. This is due to severe unawareness around mental health issues I feel.

5. I once read about a girl breaking up with her boyfriend because he wasn’t wiping properly and had… well… stripes in his underpants… and he was wearing those stripes facing forward

6. You want to.

7. Addiction.

8. I once broke up with a guy because I found a skidmark in his undies. Hygiene is incredibly important to me. The guy didn’t smell or anything, but every time I looked at him all I could see was a dirty butt hole.

   If you can’t do the basic task of washing or wiping your booty hole correctly, I’m not gonna stick around to figure out what other nasty habits you have.

9. Anything hygiene related  

   e.g. doesn’t flush the toilet properly / doesn’t use bleach and toilet brush. 

   You’d be surprised how many have this bad habit.    

   Doesn’t wipe the shower/bath down.   

   If you’re going to be filthy, you need to have your own bathroom.  

   I know someone that’s otherwise outwardly clean, but he would be generally considered quite filthy given certain bad habits..

10. If they get in the way of your sleep. Or your food.