So me (30M) and my (32F) girlfriend got together, I learned she was still a virgin. She is religious and wanted to wait until marriage. However, when we went on vacation we ended up playing with each other. I gave her oral and she gave me a hand job.
Now it actually started a little before we left and we do mini vacays like 2-3 days. This was last year but ite been on mind ever since. It was May 24 I first gave her oral and I noticed her hymen was perfect intact. Like had a perfect hole in the middle. Four days later I give her more and the following day then a fews day later the same. All the time the hymen was intact. This is around June 2 now and everything looks the same.
Now we had another trip beginning around June 25 I can’t remember the exact date. However this time, when I went to give her oral her hymen was like it was busted if that makes sense. Like the skin where the hole was was now broken off and now not connected.
This has me worried because now I am thinking she did something with someone else. My question is could there be another reason or is it likely that she did have sex with another man? She says she didn’t but what else could it be?