Hello amazing internet strangers,
as the title says, I (26F) have a crush on one of my flatmates (30M). I’ve been living with him for 2 years already, and I haven’t had any romantic interest in him until now. D: We are really close and spend a lot of time together and outside of the house. He’s a person I talk to a lot about everything, and I’ve made the mistake of talking about all the other guys I’ve seen over the past two years because I saw him as a friend before(!). But in the last few weeks I’ve started to develop or realize that I have a crush on him and since then things have been weird for me, I’m weird now, like really weird. And I decided to wait so it can pass and see my situashionship dude, but I’m still feeling stuff for him. He’s a nerdy guy, almost never leaves the house and hasn’t dated anyone in the last 2 years. I don’t think he will ever make a move (if he liked me, which I dont know) and I don’t know what to do. How can I approach him? How do I find out if it’s mutual? He is a really amazing person and I don’t think I would make a mistake with him, just difficult to say something and then have to move out or make this friendship stranger than it is now. What is your opinion? What would you peeps do?
Merciiiiii