My girlfriend she got married back in her early 20s and the marriage couldn’t hold longer so after all fights with her ex husband for 4 years she finally decided to move on and it’s been 5 years she got separated but she is in a deep trauma like the anger issues, abusive etc and when she is normal she cries like hell and say I wasn’t like this ever in my life and I don’t know how am I behvaing like this!
I tried to persuade her to get help and she said yes but then everytime the time come she make excuses so I tried myself to make her feel comfortable and get rid of that trauma but she just doesn’t listen or even if she does and the minute I’m done speaking she starts behaving the same!