Context: We are both going to Uni this year, I am trying to put aside some money in case I need it for this specific reason. He asked me if he could go to a festival with his friends in the summer. At first, I told him that it is his choice (and I still stand by this answer) but what made me think about it so much was the fact that he did not care whether I could go or not. He knows that I would like to go with him but that I don’t have the money to do it, I told him that it would make me feel kind of bad, at first, he told me that he wanted to go there with me and out of a sudden, when his friend also invited him, he did not care about me anymore. When I shared my opinion, he seemed like he understoond me. Then, he asked me in front of his family and friends if I would ‘let’ him go to this festival along his friends, like I was controlling his choices, thing which made me feel really bad.
I asked him if I could go with my friends somewhere in the summer and he was like: We’ll see. Bro u go wherever you want and do whatever you like and when I want to do the same thing there is a problem?
For background: Last summer my friends did not want him to come with me to our mini vacation (we were at the beginning of our relationship) and guess what, I still found a way to go with him, abandoning them when I could follow my interests and go by myself and leave him aside.
I don’t understand if I am exaggerating or not…