I’ve tried online dating on and off over the years and it seems like I can only get dates with women that I’m not genuinely attracted to. Looks aren’t all I care about of course, but I just feel like I need to be sexually attracted to a potential girlfriend.
Do you think I should accept that I won’t be attracted to my girlfriend? Should I settle for someone? Although I don’t like to use the word settle. I don’t won’t to hurt anyone’s feelings or lead anyone on, but at the same time I’d be lying if I said I didn’t have a real desire for a relationship.