We have been official for a week. Known each other for a few years, started seriously talking three or four weeks ago. I started chatting w someone online a lot, sexted, caught feelings… then had some tough life lessons thrown at me and realized I need to grow up.
Not looking for sympathy. I cheated. I need to work on myself a lot. Just looking for advice on approaching the convo.
I talked to my mom and she agrees with me that I just need to tell her everything. My boys all say I’m crazy for admitting but… they’re all 17-20 y.o guys… my close girl friends mostly agree with me but one things I should hide it and just stop cheating.
Idk I feel very confident that I just need to spill my guts and let her go off on me. I don’t expect her to want to keep dating and honestly that is best for both of us rn. I just want to make sure that I approach the convo in ways that I don’t hurt her… I’m really nervous… like I deserve anything she says or does and I accept that but the thought of telling her is making my skin crawl.
I know I need to do this. I know I need to face her and accept the consequences for my selfish decisions. I know I’ve ruined my chance with her and the girl I fell for online. I’m here looking on tips on how to not hurt her during my confession… not to make it easier on me or anything.
Thanks