My (24f) gf of 3 years denying that she cheated on (29m) me when we both have chlamydia
So yeah never thought I’d be here but anyway so I
Been dating this girl for about 3 years she had always been an awesome girl until recently she got a Pap smear and brought to my attention that she had chlamydia (the last time she had this done was before we met) .I go to get tested the day of and find I am also infected but can say that I 100% have never stepped out with anybody else. While our relationship had been a bit off recently it wasn’t anything crazy she had been the same affectionate woman as always was but was telling me she wanted to get outside with friends more often and sex had definitely tapered off these last two weeks, so I’m just confused. She believed that I didn’t step out and swears she didn’t either but the thing getting me is that she barely accused me, I don’t know if it’s because she trust me or she knows she contracted the disease. We are mostly together during any free time we have, she had been out with a girl friend these last two weeks for food and drinks at a bar but would end up at my place at the end of the night. I’ve been doing research and I guess it’s possible to have this dormant for many years but highly unlikely, we haven’t talked in a couple days and I’m just crushed and just looking for answers if anybody has any.
TLDR: girlfriend of 3 years diagnosed with chlamydia/I found out I have it too and we are asymptomatic