I 29f and my husband 31m are together for almost 5 years. Have 2 kids and a 3 on the way.
Today i dropped my husband and son at daycare because he whas helping with a activity there. Then i dropt our daughter at school. As i returned to my car the key didn’t work. So i called my husband to ask for our incerense number sinds its in his name and i dont have access to it.
He told me he would come over. As im still trying to fix it. When he whas almost there it start working again. I told him he didn’t had to come i just needed te number. And i broth him back to the daycare.
When i got home i called my mom to relay the story to her and also that he still didn’t gave me the number and that it made me feel like he thought i whas to stupid to turn a key.
He heard it on the camera in our childers room. I had her on the phone whill i whas cleaning the house. As soon as he whas home he stared scolding me for talking ‘bad’ to my mom about him. In his opinion i cant talk about my feelings to my mom if my feelings are unfalled. (His words not mine).
I tolk him that those are my feelings and i should be able to talk to my mom about them. And also that i dont want to be spyed on.
So my questions.
Im i wrong for talking to my mom about my feelings? And im i over reacting for feeling spyed on?