Okay so we started college together this November, and since December we’ve been talking nonstop on whatsapp (1st semester was on zoom), there was a click between us and at first I wasnt sure I’m into her but then we decided to do all the end of semester tasks together and this made us talk more, so we found ourselves talking every day for like 7 hours on zoom about a lot of deep stuff like love and relationships, fears and insecurities and so on. This made me fall in love with her so I told her that even tho I knew she thinks she isn’t ready for a relationship (huge mistake, i know), and then she told me she isn’t ready and since then we were still talking regularly and kept being really good friends, but I started feeling like she tries to distance me slowly and be more cold towards me (even tho she told me she doesn’t want me to hate her or stop talking to her). That made me confused and I started to lose myself in the relationship, so I told her after a very mild argument that we had where she blamed me for saying something I literally did not say, that I think it’s best for both of us to take a step back, and I clarified that it doesnt mean we should stop talking, just not be all the time together or talk everyday about everything, and I thought she would take it lightly and be cool with it.
But oh boy, since then she ignores me every time she sees me, she acts like I dont exist and even when I say GM to her she doesnt even look in my direction, she started missing soooo many classes since then and now she also deleted her whatsapp DP, when I messaged her after 2 weeks asking how she is doing she gave an answer that even god wouldnt understand what it means.
Its worth to say she has a lot of trust issues and is very afraid of opening up to people.
I never meant any harm to her and i like her very much but i dont knoq what to think of the situation, it felt to me like we had a deep bond and that we can trust each other but now it looks like she doesnt care about me at all, which kinda hurts.
Im not going to reach out to her probably cause I already did that and now the ball is in her hands, but I still feel shit about the situation and would like to ask for advice.