We have been together for 3 months. About 2 weeks ago I found out he had lied to me about his ex gf showing up at his place and had been messaging people on dating apps. His apology seemed sincere and he seemed remorseful so I forgave him and decided to move forward.
Today, I found several videos of him jacking his dick in his camera roll. Most of them are recorded on nights that I’m not there because I’m at work. Should I be concerned he’s being unfaithful? In most of the videos he doesn’t even get hard even though they are long (like 20 minutes), so I can’t imagine they would be sexy to receive? But some of them are to completion. If he isn’t sending them to others what could they be for?
He also seems way less interested in sex than I am. I am usually the one to initiate and it only leads to anything maybe 50% of the time. So it seems odd that he would be touching himself so much and recording it but not seem super interested in sex with me.
He always reassures me that he thinks I’m attractive and loves having sex with me, but this is making me feel a little insecure.
Given his history of lying I don’t want to confront him until I get another opinion on what this could be.
My main concern is that he’s being unfaithful.
TL;DR: my bf has a bunch of videos of him jacking his flaccid penis in his camera roll. He has a history of lying to me about interactions with other girls. What could these videos be for?