Dear Community,
I’m seeking advice for my current situation. I’m struggling to cum when using a condom.
About me: Uncircumsized, average length (16 cm erect, 6 inches), slightly more girthy than average (64mm or 2.52 inches). With previous partner, we didn’t use condoms, I had less problems with cumming. Did had problems with the retraction of foreskin in the past, and since I was single for a long time (more than a year), the only action i got was the one i gave myself. the problem got worse during that time I feel.
I’m with new someone new and want to obviously respect her wishes to stick with condoms, but want to cum, too. There are two root causes, I believe:
– Condom too tight, semi kills my erection. Bought bigger ones, the part of the issues seems to be solved. Though I may need to experiment with more lubricated ones possibly?
– After applying the condom, my foreskin rather quickly (after one trust or all by itself) goes up to cover part of my glands. Foreskin is also too dry i think. When foreskin cover the glands, this removes a lot of sensation, i remain hard, but unable to cum.
Also, when foreskin is up, it stays up and won’t come down easily. Currently trying to retract my skin as much as possible (i.e. pull it back as much as i can, non-erect and when erect and try to keep it down for a couple of seconds), not much results so far. I plan to lubricate the inside of the condom additionally, to make the foreskin more easily go back down even if it comes up.
Any other measures I can take?
TIA! ❤️