So me and my wife in a LDR. She’s sharing a house with 3 other men all of them are old. She’s living in that house for past 8 months or so . Saul is 60 year old and quite fond of my wife . At first I thought it’s good because they got father and daughter relationship . He seems fine and his behavior is ok .
A week ago or so my wife went on a trip for one full day with her friends. She told him shes going on a trip . on that day he called her 10 times and sent her ton of long ass angry messages and got angry because she didn’t inform him before going to trip.
Apparently he tend to knock the door constantly and asks her “ can we have a chat” .
She even avoids kitchen so that she doesn’t have to talk to him. The minute she goes to kitchen he comes to kitchen to have a talk.
She told me Today he got angry because she told him “Give me 10 minutes I am talking to my mother “ after 10 minutes he said “10 minutes is over” angrily.
On the side note: he gives her flowers and cards ,toys , written notes all the time.
I asked her is it always like this ? She said yes and she even yelled at him 4 times in 8 months Because of his behavior.
We are planning on moving in together in about 1 week . We paid advance and everything. Problem is he knows the new address too. This behavior is odd and too clingy. What to do?