So last month I met this girl through an app and we hit it off well. For some time she ghosted me, but then all of a sudden like 1 1/2 months later she responded back saying she was busy and had some issues going on. I seriously think i’m in love. For years, i’ve talked to a lot of women and they all ghosted me and unmatched me. The fact that this girl reached back out to me and said she was sorry is super sweet and she legit says she loves talking to me. I love everything about her. She has a wonderful personality, shes cute, shes caring, shes willing to put in the effort, and overall a good person. I’m also a short guy like 5’4 so I’ve been rejected by a lot of women for height, even a lot shorter than me. Thankfully, she doesn’t mind shes also shorter than me like 5’1 but she doesn’t mind my height and I believe she really likes me.
I only talked to her a few times, but I just want to prevent myself from being boring. I have some anxiety that I’m leaving a bad impression and I hope not. I’m doing everything I can to make conversations interesting and joking around once in a while, but what can I do to possibly keep her engaged in my conversations and I really think it might progress into something great, maybe. Shes an amazing woman and theres a chance that she might be my future wife, possibly. Any tips would be great. Thank you!
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Did you actually meet her?
Don’t speak to women you meet on dating apps over text for extended periods of time. Introduce yourself, have a nice conversation, crack some jokes and establish rapport and ask them out on a real date. Talk too much and you won’t have anything to find out about eachother when you meet. Secondly, you’re way too invested in someone that you’ve never met in person before. Cool it with the future wife stuff because putting girls on a pedestal is going to be detrimental to your relationships.