So about a month ago me and my partner had sex, he orgasms pretty quickly so he put on a condom & he couldn’t hold it so he orgasmed. We tried going for another round because I didn’t orgasm. But he got hard then soft so we gave up & decided to try it again another day. So that happened a month ago. Now, I had 2 weeks without seeing him due to him working and we had sex yesterday. He told me he didn’t want to have sex without a condom because he was going to orgasm quickly and I was going to get mad if he would take long the second time. (Which kinda weirded me out since we had 2 weeks without sex so why wouldn’t he finish in round 2) he insisted in putting on a condom do we did, I got on top and orgasmed in about 5 minutes and when I did he finished as well. I then asked him why he didn’t want me to sick his dick and he told me he was going to orgasm too quickly. It’s weird to me that he wouldn’t want to go a second round considering the fact we had 2 weeks without seeing each other. After we were done I saw the condom and the semen was watery and there wasn’t a lot in there. I don’t know if he’s jerking off way too much and doesn’t really have sexual energy for me anymore and I really want to figure out what’s wrong but he says he doesn’t watch porn. What should I do and what do you think about it?
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some guys just don’t cum a lot and have a hard time lasting long, it’s a struggle for us😭😭
You guys need foreplay. Lots of foreplay with his face and hands between your legs. When you’re feeling close, have him put on a condom! Also, ask him to jerk off a couple hours before coming to see you.
Ask him directly. I think you are overthinking things. He’s not seen you in two weeks, he sounds like hers nervous/anxious about his performance in bed. Can almost guarantee he jerked off before you arrived in the hopes that would take the edge off things and he wouldn’t cum so quickly during sex, pretty common tactic for a guy.