I am an introvert. I was fortunate enough to meet people at bakery / coffee shops and went on a few dates in the last couple of months, but unfortunately I am not able to feel the spark with any of the dates. I feel like the whole process is kind of taxing as I hate other people ( in general).
Not sure what to do actually. I have been on 5 dates so far but I have no idea what I am doing actually. I haven’t advanced to the physical part with any of the dates as I am not comfortable taking it to the next stage without liking the person in the first place.
M27 here.
Thoughts?
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May be Aro, Ace or both. May just be uncomfortable.
I suggest a bit of searching. Find out who you are.
You just haven’t met the right person yet. I felt like you did. I’d been on a bunch of dates and I didn’t feel that spark until I met my now boyfriend. I felt it on the first date.
I found dating frustrating and tedious until I met the right person.