Let’s be honest guys, we all like a great nude.
But on the flip side when you start becoming serious with a girl and get nudes, you know there are multiple guys out there with her nudes, from the past.
How do you deal with this and not just think there’s some dudes out there beating their meat to her pics.
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If your girl is hot we don’t need nudes to jerk off to her
I’ve never once given this any thought.
I don’t care if some other guy is jerking off to her, the reality is I’m the one banging that piece of ass now. Let them enjoy the knuckle shuffle while I enjoy some good pussy
> But on the flip side when you start becoming serious with a girl and get nudes,
Maybe I’m a prude but as a 34 year old with a decent sexual history this has never happened to me. I never wanted to ask for them, never received them and never felt the urge to get any.
But to answer your question, you suck it up. Yes she has a history before you It’s the same in reverse.
Don’t worry about it, it’s her body to do with what she wants. You should feel happy that she wants to share that side with you. But you can always ask her about it and then decide if it’s a deal breaker for you.
You, and listen closely, grow the fu*k up. Past is the past. Cant hang stuff over women, or men’s heads that we wanted from them. Guess what, shes probably slept with someone too. Oh no
You grow up.
I would wonder what she did with the money.
Change your perspective, they’re out there beating their meat to pics of your girl, but you’re having your way with the real thing and they know that🤷🏻♂️ so who’s the real winner here?
Someone prob came on her face or back or inside her also. You have done it to other people.
You gotta figure why you are dwelling on it.
If you grew up before the mobile porn videos we have now or if you have ever been on a long trip with no internet. You know you can beat meat to a lot less than an actual nude pic of someone.
Figure out why you can’t get past it. If she was sending them out like crazy, then that may feel like dating a born again girlfriend, post pornstar career, but people do that also. Not everyone can do that though
She existed before you entered her life. She fucked a number of people, she fucked them *good*. The feeling you’re experiencing is vanity. **Get over yourself.**
There are probably people jerking to her Facebook or just interactions with her also.
you can’t, really. if that’s the game you are playing, you have to accept that you’re not the first person to play.
if you are serious, and it is really bothering you, you need to have that conversation with her or it will eat at you and come up later in an argument and that definitely won’t work out for you. everyone has a past, and you can’t expect someone to live in a state of regret, shame, or being perpetually apologetic. you might need to ask her not to send you any more if it just makes you think about other dudes getting one in the past.
acknowledge it. make sure you are both on the same page with your current relationship status and exclusivity. and then forget about it. live for today.
I think you should have that “talk” with her about sending explict stuff,when my girl did it i never gave it much thought until one of my so called friends said he had pics of her lol only thing u can do is accept that she has a past and that its your turn now and shes YOUR girl not anyone elses. With that being said dont try to make it to much of a problem especially if she loves you,it will only push her away.Just make a suggestion about how u feel about it and let her think it out.
Their may be multiple dudes with her pics but On the flip side how many nudes from different girls have you been sent? Don’t open Pandora’s box unless you are willing to put your past on blast.
It’s past, I only care about what she thinks in present. If you want to live a happy life let go of peoples past specially when you were not with them in that past.
You are lucky she’s sharing herself with you and also lucky if she told you she have done in the past.
I would just not date anyone if I was going to worry about stuff like that.
This is what happens when you buy used.
If you want clean, seek out clean. If you want dirty, you get what comes with that.
It’s just a picture/video.
No clue
I suppose the same way people get over the fact she had sex with other people
Nudes? What about all the guys she’s banged. You may never be her best and she may think of someone else while you are fucking her
Embrace it man. It means you’re dating someone so hot that other dudes are fantasizing over her.
I mean it’s fine to be jealous, but there are limits to that. No one likes the thought of their woman with another man.
But unless that dude is right here in front of me waiving that nude in my face. I’m comfortable enough with myself to just let that shit go my guy.
But yeah, if he did show up waiving around the nude, imma put some Fresh Prints all up the side of his head.
oh no, somebody saw her naked before 🙄. Are you in Afghanistan?
You do not own her, you do not control her. It is just your turn with her. Ideally you’ll be with her till one of you dies but she is not yours. She is her own individual person outside of you who has lived a whole life of her own before you came into the picture. It’s time to stop being selfish, to overcome your insecurities, and to grow up. Just because other men have received nudes or had sex with her in the past doesn’t mean whatever you guys might have can’t be special. Love her for who she is today. If you can’t, leave her because she deserves better
Edit: spelling is hard
Well, for one, you stop being a hypocrite.
Never. Even. Crossed. My. Mind.
Do not compare your current situation with her past. You do yourself a great disservice. If she sends you noods, be grateful and keep private.
Uhhh I just don’t care? If some dude saved my girls pics from way back when then that’s just proof I have a catch.
In the past?
Like before she even knew you existed?
Man. Come now. You seem to be grasping at straws. Also: When they beat they meat to her, they basicall dream of having her … while you are with her. So even if you care about that kind of stuff, it shouldn’t throw you off.
Never given it a thought. Nor would I be bothered.
What if my girlfriend wasn’t a virgin, she fked other guys in the past, why you not annoyed with that?
Holy shit. Male insecurity has hit a record-breaking ~~low~~ high.
Don’t give it any thought. I was in as relationship with someone that had an only fans, so I know it was more than just “a few dudes”. I made it a point to never go to her page, not just because I didn’t want to know but also because I didn’t want to treat her as a masturbatory aide.
Everyone has a past. The best thing to do is not ask because it’s only upsetting.
Enjoy the present and if you are lucky enough to get nudes just be thankful
Never once thought about nor cared about past nudes. If you think that other men have not seen her naked up until this point you got a rude awakening coming. Photos or memory, other dudes have seen her naked and unless it is her first time, other dudes have done the deed with her as well.
As long as no one is disseminating revenge porn and she’s not still sending them to others behind my back and she’s not given the best of herself to someone in the past but won’t give the best of herself to me, there’s nothing to think about.
“Well, I’m the one seeing em naked now, so HA!”
Hah. That’s the nice thing about being married 25 years: nude pics is not now and never has been a thing.
If you suppose that, hypothetically, everything you’ve ever done regarding sending nudes, sexting, body count, sexual encounters, yadda yadda – she has also done… and that bothers you or you have to “get over it” then congrats, you’re holding others to a different standard than you hold yourself. If you take a scenario, which you’ve partaken in and call it a-okay, but call foul on a girl when she does it, that’s unfair and just silly. Don’t be a silly goose.