My (27f) dilemma is that I’ve always loved head, but my boyfriend (32m) is well endowed and my jaw hurts after 10 ish minutes. I haven’t helped him finish this way bc of that and it kinda affects my confidence that I can’t do more/ get satisfaction of helping him cum. He’s my Mt. Everest lol. I get off from pleasing him, and vice versa. I haven’t had this issue before and I try other things too like using tongue and lips around the shaft and balls; also trying to take his guidance (being consistent with the same in/out motion versus deep throating bc he enjoys that more) but I’m wondering if just push through it or if there’s anything I can do so my jaw doesn’t hurt.
I stopped doing it for a while bc of this, but I want to keep trying. He’s always making sure I finish and keeps up with my sexual needs. I want to please him, bc it pleases me. TIA.
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You don’t *have* to be gobbling down on his dick the entire time. Give your mouth a rest and just jack him off till you’re ready to go back to it.
My fiancé faces the same struggle hahah I am very girthy, and she is never able to get me completely in her mouth. But you don’t need to do that for the bj to be good! Simply focus on the tip with your mouth, and stroke the rest with your hands. You can even forget the hands, and JUST use your mouth gently on the tip. Slow movements can sometimes be more stimulating than hard fast ones. Lick up and down his entire shaft as well. Moving down to the balls does help to relieve your jaw for a moment if you’re getting really into it. When you go to finish him, really focus on getting the tip in your mouth and sucking on that, while stroking the rest of him with your hands. She always finishes me this way, and it feels fucking amazing
Unless you’re delaying for PiV sex, do your best to make sure your man is fully relaxed and allows himself to nut. Realistically, anyone with decent oral skills should be able yo make most men cum in well under 10 minutes, assuming the man is allows it and is comfortable.