So i’m a 18 y/o male who has recently moved to a different city due to college.
Now that I live alone my girlfriend comes over almost every weekend to , yo know , make the nasty stuff. But living alone means having to cook and wash and take care of every chore of the house , besides I go to the gym 4 times a week and I play rugby 3 times a week. I’m also going to a pretty hard college so as you might suppose I am kind of stressed out.
Now the thing is I don’t think I have a low libido (I consider myself to be a sexualy energetic person) but I have been experiencing some problems getting my d\*\*k hard and that’s making me really frustrated. My girlfriend says that she doesn’t mind it but I noticed how after a long time of foreplay she kind of gets mad when I can’t get it hard.
Does this have anything to do with my daily stress or should I start taking viagra pills.
Any advice is welcome. Also sorry for my bad english , my native language is spanish.
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Stress can definitely affect your libido. It’s up to you to see if you can reduce your stress somehow.
On another note, it’s no good to have a partner who gets angry at your sexual difficulties. This can only worsen your problems if you have both your life stress and worries about performing for your girlfriend’s expectations.
Talk to her about how you feel, explain to her that you’re under stress and you think it’s affecting your libido. If she’s supportive, she’ll be understanding and offer to help where possible, but if she responds in a dismissive and angry way, it may be time consider finding someone with a more mature attitude.
If the situation doesn’t improve, consider sex or couples therapy.
Your english is good by the way!