Some words of encouragement for me and other people like me who are struggling to get over someone.
Honestly I feel much much better now, I finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.
But sometimes I still find myself pining over my ex and I have difficulties to believe I’ll ever fall out of love for him.
Which I wish I could because I don’t even think he deserves my affection.
Have anyone ever felt so hopeless but time proved them wrong ?
Of course it’s possible to get over someone and fall out of love, right ?
In that case you will see the other person as someone “normal” and you will not have any attachment to them…
Seeking for shared experiences here !!!
Thank you !
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Example of words?
This is a time and attention issue. Focus yourself on hobbies, projects, new social connections, and work. Avoid this person’s social media. If possible, avoid mutual friends. Over time you will starve your brain of attachment chemicals, and move on emotionally. The better you can focus on work, self-development, and fun with friends, the faster the feeling better.