My girlfriend just asked me recently… since we are finally making progress on my dick is actually getting inside of her without pain. she said she wants to elevate our sex more and make it more kinky and sexy. any suggestions?

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  4. Some couples like cum play. Going down on her after you’ve cum inside her. Making out with her after you’ve cum in her mouth or on her face. Licking cum off of her body. It can be *very* hot and lead to a round 2.

    A lot of guys think it’s gross, but honestly, get over it. If you expect her to get cum in her mouth why is it suddenly gross for you?

  6. Sporting goods/camping stores make for surprisingly good supply depots to spice up the bedroom: Light spanking? Ping pong paddle. Kinky oily sex? Get a light rain poncho or tarp to cover the bed. Experiment with restraint? A nice, soft coil of cotton rope. Blindfold? Big handkerchief. It’s kinda weird, but I stocked up for some rather amazing nights at Academy Sports when I couldn’t afford sex shoppes…

  7. Holding her breast tight to the level of bdsm, squeeze it like when you squeez ballons to blow them.

  9. Ask if shes into choking, slapping (on the face if she likes it or butt), pulling hair

  10. Mix it all together tie each other up and tease and use and edge and cum coat as possible add toys , people , scenarios , costumes , oil, whatever

  11. My suggestion: if she is asking this she may have smtg in mind. Sit her down and ask !

  13. Buy a bullet vibrator hold it on her clit during intercourse she will love you forever!

  15. in addition to everything listed,-ropes and bondage the feeling of being restrained and being tied up sub class of this is shibari-words, words and communcation during before and after can be powerful tools and they can be soft nice padding and whips too.-some examples; praise (telling her good girl, youre doing so well, you make me feelgreat),-punishing,-degradation (typically assosicated with being called a slut, whore, dirty something orother),-humiliation (can be followed by or after punishing or degradation)-furniture; another great addition to adding spice why instead of the regular place just do it anywhere-wax play is a sorta step up only due to the care require to learn and not hurt eachother but once done right can be a whole experience.-ofc lingerie very nice very good, there are also mens equivelents also nothing wrong about dressing up to make yaself feel hot.

    theres a whole universe other there of kink to try good luck to yas

    Edit also almost forgot.

    these are tests you can do to see how kinky both of you are and whats some things to try or work to

    [https://sexionnaire.com/](https://sexionnaire.com/) this is the one for couples 2 modes the ultra test and the quicker soft one after both are submitted it can compare and then only shows mutuals

    [https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode](https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode) (has 2 types its more kinky kinky)

  16. 1. Spank her ass and pull her hair (near her scalp, so it doesn’t hurt) while fucking her doggy style.

    2. If you’d be open to it, free-use could be fun/kinky to explore.

    3. Buy her a wireless egg vibrator to wear in public and control the vibrations yourself. It could be really sexy to get her hot and wet before you can fuck each other.

    4. Light bondage and ball gags – make sure you know what you’re doing if you tie her up or start with simple handcuffs. If she’d be open to wearing a ball gag during sex, also make sure to have a safe “sign” as opposed to a safe word since her mouth will be too full to make any coherent sound.

  18. I go nuts when my boyfriend puts his hands on my throat from behind and I can feel/hear his breath on the back of my neck. It doesn’t have to be a hard grip – just research how to hold her safely so you don’t impede her breathing.

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