An Update to My Last Post

Me and my boyfriend are no longer together. I feel hurt because I ended up giving him a second chance and he blew it, we even made up yesterday.

After the first argument we had his mother intervined and said that she never said he couldn’t meet with me and only said that I needed to take an lft before coming to see him. Yesterday he asked me if I minded it being socially distanced and I said no as long as he was there and we could see each other.

Today however right before work he said his mom was mad at him since yesterday and that he was still going to see me no matter what. I knew what would happen as soon as he said that and my fear was confirmed later on when he told me that we needed to have a talk and “be realistic” about everything.

I spoke to him on the phone and he told me this Tuesday was off and that he needed to look after his sick dog but I could see him again if the dog passed or recovered, which could be at any time. At this point I just felt so hurt and betrayed along with the fact that I’m done waiting for him to go and see me.

I got very upset because at one point he even said maybe we could meet before but that his mum would have to make sure we were distancing. May I remind everyone that this fully grown man is 21 years old. That was it for me, that was the point I called it off. He kept saying sorry but at that point the word was meaningless.

I know his mom put him up to this and basically controls almost everything he says and does. He had a choice between me and his mother and he chose his mother.

So long story short, I no longer have a boyfriend and it’s quite painful but I’m handling it surprisingly well and on the upside there is no controlling mom.