He still cares about me, and he was my first “adult relationship”. He treated me like a queen, always caring for me, giving me handmade gifts, and so much more. But, sometimes, he gets really immature and self destructive. He falls to pressure and peer pressure easily. This person (22F) pressured him into cheating on me, we couldn’t talk at the time due to complications, so he felt isolated and completely alone. I know how he’d respond if I broke it off,I know cheating is wrong, but I know he truly cares about me and loves me, but I feel so conflicted about mine and his relationship. I still care and love for him, but I feel a betrayal of my trust. I don’t want to end it, but I might have to. Reddit, any advice?
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cheating is not forgivable
Do you feel like you would be able to trust him 100% after this?
If she “pressured” him into sex, that’s coercion/assault. I think you’re overlooking his part in this, since if it’s not assault, this was something he also wanted.
You get to choose what to do from here, but know that you’re worthy of having a partner who is faithful.
No one pressures me to eat ice cream. I eat it because I want to. If you are okay with him treating you like pile of shit and cheat on you again without getting caught, sure get back with him. Maybe you won’t be bitter at life and be insecure in your next relationship to a point where you would ruin all of them based on this fantastic relationship you will have with a trashy cheater.
*To clarify, they did not have sex, me and him are still virgins, she pressured him into sexting, this was brief before my bf realized what he had done, and hasn’t forgave himself for it