Pretty new to sex, and the only way I’ve been able to transition from foreplay to penetration is by asking her to give me a blowjob as a form of natural lube and then just going straight into missionary (I of course make sure she is ready and wet enough). Are there any other ways of making this transition? I’m just so inexperienced that I’ve stuck to this one method, and although it is good I want to switch it up.
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Buy some actual lube. You can do lots of things but lube is better than saliva.
Stop obsessing on penetration and instead work on improving your foreplay game. When you master foreplay you’ll learn that penetration in its various and sundry forms naturally flow from the set up.
Use your hands to explore and tease, use your lips and tongue to enliven the erogenous spots, confidently complimenting her sexiness, a good whisper in the ear about what you want to do…
A for gods sake, go down on HER!
Foreplay isn’t just about getting her wet. It’s about making sex pleasurable for her too. Woman needs more time to warm up. Woman usually needs foreplay even when she masturbate by herself or before oral.
First…lube is your friend, not the enemy. Even if she’s wet, trust me it’s always better with lube.
Try not to overthink it! Half of sex is the mental side, it’s not all just physical and penetration. You need to explore each others bodies..kiss her all over, build passion slowly. Show her through the way you touch her. The more you let yourselves build up, the better it’ll be in the end. You giving her oral, massages, kisses, all sorts of teasing, are all forms of foreplay. Just don’t get caught up on experience and just go with how you feel.