My bestfriend cheated on me with my recent Ex.

My bestfriend cheated on me with my gf (ex)

I just wanted to get this off my chest. So what happened is that my 3 years gf at the time broke up with me because she feels that I was not spending more time with her in the past couple of months. Whi ch is partly true but justifiable due to conflicting work schedule of ours. Tried multiple times to give me second chances and she actually gave it to me.

Then one of my bestfriend of 10 years, was initially devasted of the news and offered to help with getting back together with her.

I agreed, we went to a gig of my bestfriend and I didn’t try to talk with my ex because it was very loud. Then I chatted her that I still feel the same way and if she ever decided to have me back I would be very glad and not waste the opportunity that was given to me. She only seen my message and din’t reply.

After a week, my bestfriend invited us to one of his gig again, I decided not to go because I also have an appointment that night. What I didn’t know is that he also invited my ex to that gig.

Then fast forward for another week, my bestfriend bawling his eyes confessed to me that there’s something going on between them.

I was not very very surprised because they are really compatible when it comes to their interest. After that night I chatted my ex about that and she said my bestfriend is not a rebound and she’s very sure of what she feels about him. She also cited to me again that I was not trying hard enough to change myself in order to spend more time with her then there were no cheating happened during our good days. But I highly doubt it since they are sending back and forth of their kpop crushes. At the time I interpreted it as harmless because my ex have also boy friends who do that with her.

I don’t know why I posted this, probably just because to release this shitty feeling. Thank the heavens that my friends is on my side during these hard times. I just don’t get why my bestfriend is ready to throw away our 10 year solid brotherhood for her. All of my friends in the circle knew of this and tried to stop my bestfriend but he’s also very sure that he will pursue her.

Now I’m drowning myself in playing videogameswith onr of my bestfriend as well who also feels shitty about the cheater bestfriend’s action but after I stop playing, the fucking shitty bitter feeling creeps in and I just wanted to send more trashtalk to my cheater bestfriend because I know he won’t defend himself.

tl;dr: my bestfriend offered to help me to get back with my recent ex because I still love her. But ended up them two having a strong passionate fling that my ex gf is sure that my bestfriend is not a rebound. All of that happened in the span of two weeks.