It may seem weird that I’m posing on here as a 46 year-old male. But it’s just that I’ve been “out of the game” for a while. I recently ended a dysfunctional 16-year marriage. I’ve gone on two dates with a woman I really like. She’s a little hard-to-read emotionally. She’s very low-key, and not high-drama. Which is generally good. But it’s hard to read her emotional vibe or interest. We’ve been on two dates so far. Both went well, I thought. I’ve gotten hugs at the end of both, and the hug at the end of the one today was a little tighter than I remember on the first one. 🙂
I can’t tell if I’ve been “friend-zoned” already, or if she’s just kind of feeling me out. I haven’t attempted to kiss her yet. I feel that’s probably a third date thing. I know…I know so many people hook up right away after the first date. What can I say? I’m kind of old-fashioned, and I think she’s kind of the same way to an extent.
If we go out again, I’m thinking of attempting a kiss. I particularly want to hear from the ladies about turn-ons and turn-offs from guys trying to kiss.
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Your post makes no sense. You were married for 16 years, but have no inclination about how to kiss your date.
Also, your use of the “friend zone” language makes me think you are way younger than 46.
The final kicker is that you seem to be thinking about modern dating trends. Which wouldn’t really be an issue if you were dating someone your age. I hope that you’re not dating someone much younger than you.