I dread them. No matter how great the person seems I am never excited or even have a lot of fun on them. I’m too worried about getting the date over with and out of the social situation w a stranger. I have a date tomorrow night and it feels like a huge chore even though the guy seems great! It’s incredibly frustrating and makes dating exhausting instead of fun.
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Stop having boring dates? Ask them to go to a rock climbing gym with you? Go to the zoo? Bar crawl for the best chicken wings? Suggest something that isn’t a chore.
You ever looked up autism in women?
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do, except maybe get to know them more before the date so you are more comfortable.
Try to go on dates more as an observer. Almost like a science experiment or something. Just enter the date with no expectations and watch how it unfolds.
I hate them because you get your hopes up then you get a stupid text the next day telling you why it won’t work.