We’ve been dating for 6 months and she is only able to orgasm via clitoris stimulation. I honestly never really enjoyed PIV sex and she doesn’t seem to like it that much either.
She has pegged me a few times and my orgasms through pegging are way better. So much so that I don’t enjoy penis stimulation as much anymore… It just feels a bit boring and repetitive.
How should I tell my girlfriend without her feeling like I’m weird or hurting her feelings? How common are couples who have penetrative sex but where it is only the woman penetrating the man?
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Start talking about how good your orgasms are by getting pegged. When she starts initialising PIV sex, try to lick her to orgasm. If she really enjoys clitoral stimulation more than PIV, oral sex and pegging will automatically become more frequent
I’m sure there are couples who have that arrangement but I’d think it’s rather uncommon. That’s what I pulled out of my ass anyway. Either way it’s something to talk to her about see how she feels
Sounds like you guys have found exactly what works for you both. That’s great!
There was a woman here a few days ago looking for someone exactly like you. Hope this gives her hope.
No thanks mam. I just wanna jam it in the booty.
Of course open communication is great and a must for good relationships.
I think this is something where you could tell her that you would like to gradually try decreasing the frequency of PiV and see if you are both happy with that.
Maybe penetration decreases to one of those once in a blue moon type things. Or, maybe you both realize that neither of you really needs it at all.
I am not a woman, but I am going to assume that maybe every once in a while she is going to crave that “full” feeling that many women talk about. Maybe she won’t. Maybe you can fulfill that with fingers or toys. Or, maybe you do PiV for her every once in a while. Or, maybe she is completely content without.
I don’t think this is weird. You both just need to communicate and test the waters and see how you both feel when PiV is decreased or eliminated completely.