Im overwhelmed by dating. Everytime Im interested in a guy, I become too overwhelmed and overthink every sentence. Im easy with making friends or talking with strangers, I would even say that Im quite charismatic and flirty. I get hit on regularly. But when it comes to a point where it becomes clear that something is gonna happen, I feel like im losing myself. Im talking nonesense or be acting weird.
This sabotaged all the opportunities that Ive had so far, and Im getting frustrated.
Had anybody a similar problem?
Im 24 and male.
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If it’s on the date drink 1 beer to take the edge off.
To avoid over messaging:
– write your friends instead when you want to write him too often
– hang out more with your friends or set up activities, go to the gym so you don’t notice the time go by and feel the need to write nonstop
Try to keep up the same amount of messages as the crush – if they write 1x – write 2x max until they write again