When every my girlfriend cums she seems “fine” just a second later. While whenever I orgasam I lay there tired, panting, etc
I thought it was a man vs woman thing at first now I don’t know. She’s even like this when she masterbates with a vibrator while I finger her. She orgasms and then boom, second later it’s as if nothing happened
Is she faking all of it?
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Mmm the entire topic seems subjective. But i do know that woman can usually handle experiencing multiple orgasms and us guys usually can’t. I personally found even after they orgasm once they seem fine, if you are able to make them orgasm multiple time and yeah they will probably get tired.
So instead of asking her about it you instead assume she is lying and ask complete strangers and outsiders if she is faking?
Some women can have multiple orgasms that don’t tire them. I am similar. I can rub one out and be completely normal after.
Well your just assuming men and women orgasm in the same way, which couldn’t be further than reality. Think about it, men usually have to put a lot of physical effort into orgasming, having to trust and hold themselves or their partner up for a period of time, of course it’ll be exhausting. Women often just have to lay their and receive, minimal physical effort required. Even just masterbating as a male when your just using your hand and no other muscles are required, there’s close to zero physical recovery time.
I am multi orgasmic and sometimes I’m super energized by orgasms, sometimes I’m mellow and sleepy. It just depends on the day, mood, energy level, etc. There are a lot of variables that go into how people respond to having an orgasm. Sometimes I pop right out of bed like ready to slay the day, sometimes I want to sleep for an hour.
Your body releases a bunch of hormones when you orgasm–the amount of these types of hormones can vary between men and women, as well as vary between individuals. If your gf doesn’t ever seem to get tired after orgasm, even during masturbation, then that’s probably just how her body works
If you’re concerned, you should just talk to her about it
Well, women don’t have a refractory period like men do. Sometimes I need a brief moment before I keep going but I don’t feel the need to lay there to recompose myself, unless it’s been a really intense session.
I really don’t think this is an indicator she’s faking it, it’s just how her body works.
My man easily gives me several orgasms before he cums himself. He’s wiped out….I get a burst of energy. Not even necessarily for more sex – just energy
It depends. When I masturbate, I’m usually fine right after, sometimes so much so that I’ll gun for a second one immediately after. But my piv orgasms have a recovery period, sometimes it takes me longer to get to normal than my male partners even.
It’s different for everyone – just because she doesn’t have a long recovery doesn’t mean she’s faking. When you’re fingering or if you give oral – usually the giver gets to know when the getter is close/orgasming. Does this happen with you? If you haven’t done it, consider doing it if you’re really worried that she’s faking/lying? I mean you should be able to trust your partner on whether they’ve come or not, but you can try this if you want.
Sometimes I’m exhausted after an orgasm. Sometimes I’m energized. It just depends on the day, the time, the amount of effort expended, how strong the orgasm was, etc.