So I think I like this guy I’ve met on a few occasions. We’ve spoken to each other a bit and this is the first time in a long time thy I can feel myself really drawn to him. Like holy shit I realllllyyyy like this guy I can’t stop thinking about him typa way. I would like to get to know him more but I’ve never dated anyone before so I’m at a loss as to what I should do. The least I’ve done is followed him on Insta but I feel like a DM would be so random so I really don’t know😭 We don’t live in the same city, we have a few mutual friends but I’m not close with them or anything but I just don’t want to sit around and wait for something to happen anymore cos every-time someone else comes and scoops up the person I’m interested in ahhh. Is it weird if I just straight up tell him I’m interested in him?? Ty if you’ve read this far x
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Just tell him, get it out in the open. if he like u too then make it into something good. Sure it’s hard and scary but nothing good is ever easy.
Straight up telling him is the best. unless he’s a weak lil baby he’s gonna see something good and go for it.
I do agree telling him is a good idea. If you want to be not so blunt though just start flirting and see how it’s received like “hey handsome” and the not so subtle “I’m watching a movie but it would probably be better if you were here 😉” type stuff.