Kind of new territory for me(f27) but my last two partners(m30/31) have been a bit larger than I’m used to and I’ve had issues with bleeding during sex. Is there a way to avoid this?
Nothing out of the ordinary came up on my last pap smear or std test. So I don’t think it has to do with that. I haven’t even had sex in a year in and a half so I’m just a little disappointed I couldn’t continue due to discomfort.
To be clear, the discomfort and pain was from the depth of penetration. Not from not using lube. We did use lube. This isn’t a discriminatory post against small penises. I’ve had sex with small penises and haven’t had this issue before. Which is why I ask the question the way I did.
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Lubes?
Only bleeding or pain too?
More foreplay and lube is always a good idea. If the depth of the penetration is the problem then investing in a OhNut would be a good idea.
Also may I suggest also posting this in r/bigdickproblems?
Use lube, it’ll likely make all the difference in the world.
Well, for me its just like sex with someone with a small penis, but bigger, and I don’t drive a massive pickup with a lift kit and various flags on the back of it.
Lots and lots of high quality lube. Particularly hybrid lube.
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Lube and make sure you receive enough foreplay from them
My unconventional solution has been anal. I know it probably sounds crazy, but with enough training and prep, I have found that I can take a lot more anally than I can vaginally. My first husband was hung like a horse and I was never able to take all of him vaginally. Anal was the only way he could actually go balls deep. This might not be for you but its worth a try.