Maybe I’m just being dramatic. But the people who fuck outdoors in public places, can you explain why? Is it really worth getting caught?
Because this is what happens in my mind: my boyfriend and I find a secluded field. We start fucking. Someone stumbles upon us, and calls 911. We try to escape, but the pedestrian follows us to our car and prevents us from leaving. The police arrive. My boyfriend and I are arrested for public nudity. We go to jail, and are unable to make bond. We only get served maybe 60 days in county jail, after which both him and I have to register in the sex offenders list for the rest of our lives.
How often do people get away with public sex? Boyfriend and I are planing a picnic this summer and I’ve never done anything public. What are the chances I actually genuinely ruin my life over an orgasm?
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Most western countries are a lot more relaxed about this.
(51F) There are discreet ways of going about it and still feeling the excitement while having the experience. Also, the excitement of possibly getting caught is a different kind of kink than being an Exhibitionist. Just throwing something out there for Ya’ll to think about.
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If you’re in a secluded field the police probably won’t turn up in most countries, they have bigger issues to worry about.
Depends on where u from if u are from free democratic country will be a problem and of course in city but if u lived in europe i dont thinks so tilk u are not in the center that a lot of people walk there will be no problem
You think that finding something sexually compelling goes through a logic filter? That folks attractions are rational and have identifiable roots? They largely don’t.
What you’re describing can happen. It happened to a straight couple on Blacks Beach in San Diego awhile ago, and I know 50+ dudes who have fucked there.
I’d do some research and figure out where you can safely fuck in public/semi-public; sex clubs, private property venues, etc.
Part of the turn on for some is the risk.
A kink by definition is not something that everyone will get or enjoy. If the though of having sex outdoors doesn’t turn you on, then it’s probably not for you and that’s OK.
Personally, I think it’s pretty hot but then I like a bit of naughtiness and risk in my sexual endeavours but if it is a source of anxiety for you, then it’s probably not your kink. Also worth keeping in mind, that most people who engage in public sex like the risk of getting caught but don’t actually want to be caught.
Because people can be really dumb about sex, myself included.