Hey all, I know this scenario sounds bloody weird but it has literally just happened and I’m left with a wtf moment.
So practically I see this guy at the gym every single day apart from my only day off- we are there same times and on occasion do similar exercises.
Now the point is I’m getting some mixed signals and I know you’re all going to be like “just go up and talk to him” but I am shy AF!!!!! So I’ll list the weird shit below and I would love some guys point of view please!!!!
– same time gym every night
– always got a serious look on his face
-2 months and he only just said hi with his eyebrows last night
– sometimes uses the equipment next to me
-sometimes uses equipment near me then goes somewhere else in the gym (but I’m not staring around to find him)
-today was the weirdest thing… I was doing hiit and I think he was wanting to leave. He came near me like walking around on both sides likes 3-5m away just randomly, then disappeared for 20 mins, I finished my workout then got in my car and as I was driving by his car (on the way out) his shirt was off and he was looking at me (but I was Sooooo shy- and what did he expect me to do???? Stare???? Like wtf?? I had a grin on but looked away) I’m so puzzled why someone would do this. Like was he getting a tan by his car???? Literally speechless.
What the F is going on?
2 comments
He’s probably scared to death to start a conversation. So he’s doing everything but.
He’s just as shy as you are, and unlike you, he fears that his advances will be seen as harassment. That’s my guy take on the matter.