What is the hardest part about meeting new people at a bar or club?

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1. If they’re in a group and you’re in a duo or alone, you’re fucked before you begin

2. Extrovert yourself. Strike up a conversation. Get out of your comfort zone.

3. Clubs are terrible for meeting people because the music is so loud. You have to yell and learn basic sign language to make any kind of headway.

   Meeting women can be difficult because they’re constantly getting hit on and you risk just being another guy boosting their ego OR annoying her.

   Meeting guys at the club can go either way. Drunk guys are either super friendly or super aggressive. Guys can bond and become life long friends over wearing the same shirt OR can get into a scrap for literally no reason at all.

4. Always when John Wick shows up.

   I’ve learned to leave before shit goes down.

5. Going to a bar or club with crippling anxiety.

6. In a club? Hearing what they’re saying.

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8. Remembering names

9. The right chloroform dose