So this person and I had sex for the first time. I hadn’t had sex or any kind of vaginal penetration for three years. He was big and honestly he mentioned how tight I was and to be honest because I was pretty stressed out due to my body image issues I think I was tighter than normal. Anyway so we had sex like 2-3 times that day. It was the night time and we tried again but nope. He just couldn’t enter. Even his one finger was barely going in and he tried a bit with two fingers too but it just wasn’t happening. We both were pretty much sleep deprived too so I’m thinking it was stress and sleep deprivation doing it? Anyone else got it?
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Your vagina might have been swollen from too much sex in one day. You may need to rest for a day or two and then see how it goes. Plus being stressed might also be adding to it or/and lack of good foreplay and yeah sleep deprivation too.
It’s fine if you enjoy it but if it feels too painful and difficult please make sure to draw a line with him and tell him it hurts and you need rest. Sex does not have to be painful. ( unless that’s your kink, then it’s fine)
Definitely swollen. His size might have been a factor, but swelling happens to anyone when you try to go hard like that after a long dry spell. Work up to it.