I can not get a woman’s attention. I’m a short male with a serious amount of physical problems. Im conflicted because it is hard to expect a woman who has a significant amount of options to feel any incentive to talk to me. But I also don’t want to die a lonely virgin. I have tried dating apps and real life things like speed dating/singles events. I have yet to get a date. It is literally impossible because a woman even uglier than me still has more options and opportunities than me.
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Well, maybe your first issue is judging women with standards like “even uglier than me…” secondly look for someone with relatable problems or issues, (not sure if you meant disabilities or cosmetic physical issues) 3rd confidence is key, don’t mistake confidence for cockiness, a lot of women hate absurdly confident men, but admire someone who can be confident yet humble. Play to your strengths, are you funny? Charming? Make a livable wage? Find women interested in the same things as you, a lot of relationships thrive on the fact that the couple have similar interests. I mean look at that sssniperwolf woman on you tube, she has had videos with her S/O and that dude is not what you’d expect to be dating her… same goes for Gal Gadot… but if you believe your unnattractive for some reason, don’t go for women you believe are out of your league and don’t be shallow… looks aren’t everything that goes both ways. Just because a woman doesn’t look like americas next top model, doesn’t mean she isn’t beautiful
If you see “uglier” then you are being ugly. Throupled had it. Practice on second life.
You sound pretty ugly on the inside, why would someone want to be with someone who sees them as “uglier than me” mentality?
Welcome to the club buddy. M23
My brother in Christ, the other commenters have all said facts maybe a bit harsh but none the less the truth. My advice? As someone who is a solid 0/10 on the good days I have been called ugly on the street. I once had a girl laugh and gag because I asked for her number. Don’t let negativity bring you down for one, and the other thing is own your problems. Acknowledge them and fix the ones that are fixable, and don’t be embarrassed by the ones that aren’t. Yeah it sucks feeling ugly I do a lot. But you have to be confident man, confident that you can get a girl eventually. I have always wanted to find a couple completely out of my league and convince them that I could be their third wheel. And I just might have found that couple been talking to them so we shall see. But for now man you gotta have the confidence that’s what will rope in a smokin hot girl. And she may not be smoking hot to everyone but you and that’s all that matters. My brother in Christ you also have to have a more positive mindset and a lot more belief in yourself. Someone out there is going to see you and dig that.
Calling yourself ugly doesn’t help so you should start with not doing that anymore.
Get a dating coach, check out Sean Stephenson’s story.
30 M in the same boat. I’m not short, but I’m worse in some ways because I’m unable to do things that normal people can easily do.