Okay to make a long story short, I was being a dumbass masturbating in the livingroom yesterday, I knew their was gonna be risk but I was stupid. Anyways I ended up getting caught by my older brother (m20), nothing happened, I just panicked and ran off to my room in shame.
The issue is that now he hasn’t talked to me, he hasn’t looked at me, he’s just been in his room most of the time since it happened. I tried to knock and ask if I could talk to him, but he keeps telling me no that he’s busy..
I’m so so scared that I might have ruined our relationship or that he’s disgusted by me now. I feel so bad and I just wanna apologize and talk to him. Any advice would appreciated.. I’ve been looking for help on this all day.
And if this is the wrong sub for this question then I understand and am sorry.
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For right now, give him some space. He’s processing I’m sure. Masturbation is normal and healthy, aaaaaaaaaaaand also not something one family member wants to see another family member doing. How do you think you’d react if the roles were reversed?
You didn’t ruin the relationship. Don’t you fret. Just give him some time, and just be prepared. You and your brother are gonna laugh about this later, and I can all but GUARANTEE that he’ll put this story in his speech at your future wedding. 😉
shit happens, just give him some space and when he next emerges from his room just apologize and leave it at that