So, I tried calling my close friend to try to talk to them about something important and they miss the call. When they call me back, shouldn’t it be common courtesy or proper etiquette to ask me what is so important before they start talking about something that is important for them to say? Or am I losing it?
I feel like I should get the lead in the conversation immediately from the call back rather than they have it from the get go.
Someone please tell me what is correct here.
Thanks!
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I don’t think there is any rule that you get to speak first in this situation, and generally I don’t think people view social interaction as being solely dictated by rules .
Ok the other hand of your friend only talked about themselve in that convo and never even brought up your call/ let you talk about it , then I’d say you feeling of being wronged is somewhat legitimate and I might even feel the same way . Talk to your friend , thats the best advice I have , it’s not good to let these things sit and slowly build resentment.