(29F) I like the idea of having sex and almost getting caught but I think I might like the idea of people being around and “accidentally” seeing me have sex. Anybody else have a fantasy like this? How did you bring it up to your partner or act on it?
EDIT:
I should have probably explained it better above. If I am going to do it in public then I would rather do if where no one needs to see what I’m doing but for the accident side of things. I’d like to do that part around people that know me and are comfortable. I just didn’t explain it well enough above.
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>of people being around and “accidentally” seeing me have sex
You do not involve unconsenting people. Find a way to do this either without being seen or find people to involve who want to see you. If you just do it in public and involve people who do not want to see it that makes you a POS.
I have it also and I did a lot of stuffs with my ex gf lol
Like camping, Hiking? Biking, with secluded picnic?
I went to a glory hole and had people watch me jerk my cock
Sounds like exhibitionism
That’s just exhibitionist and you can 100000%find consenting adults who “accidentally” find you.
But me to girly, just like high rise balcony or big open window.
Probably going to sex parties or something like that… There you could be watched / seen…
ETA: not everyone assumes you meant to involve unconsenting people. I knew what you meant haha don’t worry about it.
She wants the rush in her body while having sex as someone can caught her anytime or is going to catch her do unspeakable things.
I understand your place. its hot!!
There are adult resorts and clubs where swingers often go. you can indulge in those places since consent for being subject to exhibitionism is not an issue. There is a subreddit for that I think r/swingers. You don’t have to participate in sex with others, just get your kink on.
There are ways of having sex where there is no way of being seen actually having sex/sexual activity… it’s a grey area I understand the thrill of being “nearly” caught/outdoor etc, but it’s about when and where…
It’s more common than you think and yes, I …. with former girlfriends and with my wife, in a parking lot, on the car’s bonny, in the forest, close to a hiking path, on the beach, in the dunes, a hotel’s room high window, in a public sauna, on a balcony …
And as a matter of fact I have also come across two couples over the last few months, who … seemed to be as careless as we are ;o)