Hello together
My blood is boiling right now. My girlfriend went outside with some friends of her (not my friends) and she just calmly told me that they called her a “black fuzz”. Fuzz is swissgerman and means something like “extreme hot girl, who id like to f\*\*k” Its very strong word. First i gotta say that me and those friends are white and she is arabian. The fact that they said this made me upset already but she just said “baby calm down its not bad, they would never do somehing to me”. Thats when i almost got in ragemode. This is a red flag for me. I told her that its 1. kinda racist and 2. very disrespectful against me and her. But it seems like shes totally fine with it. Nah imma see those people on saturday bc they planned a party and ill tell them by myself to never say something like that again. Im also kinda hurt about the reaction of my gf.
What do you think should I do? Is this the right thing to do?
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They are not your friends. And your gf seems fine with it and doesn’t want you to intervene. Honestly let it go. If you say something, you might make your gf mad