We were together over a month, she left me because she’s moving away and she knows I can’t commit and we said we will not see each other in the local place where we hang out for a while until we are ready to be cool with each other however both of us have been upset etc and she’s recently just started messaging me asking how I am and saying she’s had a bad day and then talking to me like nothing has changed?
Is this a bad thing?
I don’t want to be friends with someone I fell for, I have my group of friends and I’m comfortable with them I don’t need an ex to be a friend also.
I find it strange and I don’t know how to tackle it.
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People text their exes for many reasons: loneliness, forgiveness, malice, friendship, etc. I don’t know the context of your relationship so I can’t say whether it’s good or bad.
It doesn’t matter why she’s doing it. If you already have your own friend group, and you don’t want to keep being friends with her, then just block her and don’t text back.