I’ve (21F) never been asked out by a random stranger. I don’t mean to hype myself up of anything, but I’m a decently attractive girl. The main reason I believe this is because of my guy friends who after knowing me have said they originally found me attractive but didn’t think I was interested and didn’t try for a romantic connection. I love them all but a friends-lovers trope is not what I’m looking for. What can I do (particularly aiming at the straight men out there) to make myself more approachable? Is there a normal way you can tell if a girl is single and looking or do y’all just hope for the best? Are there any things I should avoid doing if I want guys to come up to me?
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> What can I do (particularly aiming at the straight men out there) to make myself more approachable?
Literally just looking at a man is always gonna increase the chance that he approaches you by like 10-fold. The most effective advice that’s somehow never given on the internet. Makes any man’s knees weak. Other than that men always interpret your style. You make yourself more approachable by coming across more casual and modest. Natural style make-up, no long fake nails, not wearing too high fashion etc. Paradoxically, not trying to stick out will make men approach you more because we tend to think that you’re someone who is comfortable in their skin and chill to be around.