I feel like I’m pretty strong at initiating and continuing deep conversation, but over time with small talk, I eventually run out of things to say. I seriously don’t know how people do it 24/7, but I want to get people to first like me on a surface-level so that they’re more willing to get to know me on a deeper level if that makes sense.
I do have hobbies, an established music taste, etc. but nothing that is popular. I’m not super into pop culture and don’t keep up with celebrities. I also realized that there a ton of popular movies and franchises I haven’t seen before, so I’m working on keeping up with those things.
I almost noticed that the more I go out and do things the more I have to talk about (except I don’t have the friends to do them). Does anybody have any more tips on how to help with small talk?
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Focus more on getting the other person to talk about themselves, things they like or do, etc.
It isn’t about you being interesting or entertaining. It’s about making the other person feel comfortable around you, making them feel welcome and heard.