I M20 have recently found wonderful girl F21 whom i made my girlfriend. She’s basically perfect from her personality, her tolerate for my autistic ass and she’s soo smart it often frightens people + she can actually keep up with me. For this I’m endlessly thankful and it was really humbling to have someone who can keep me in check.
Anyway I found someone after i thought I’ll be alone for the rest of my life. Which is great but it forced me to give up on my sexual life. You see she’s quite small standing at maybe 4’9 if generous and it seems to be proportional for the rest of her… I on the other hand am 6’1 and very well developed. Because of this sex is off the table, blowjobs are also and what we can do is me eat her out and her just jerking me off. What am I supposed to about this? I don’t want to give up on her! But i also don’t want to give up on my sexual life.
And this all is not even mentioning she looks 14 even in face. Her dressing habits don’t help, mainly cottagecore and something where you dress like princess? Idfk what is that one called. Once three fucktard forty year olds almost beat me up because they thought i was with child?! (Like don’t get me wrong I’m glad someone like that is but still i don’t like it when it’s happening to me!)
Just what am I supposed to do? Anyone here is or was in similar situation?
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Physical differences is not the issue. It’s you, her, or both of you. On your end I would just be mindful that she is more delicate maybe way more. There is always a way to have sex. Both of you just need to find it. It could most likely mean positions maybe you and or her dont wanna do. Or it’s too weird. But you guys will find a way. Experiment.
As far as me. I’ve had pretty much all sizes and shapes. One thing i like is a girl to ride me. Again all sizes and shapes. There were a couple times i thought I’d be crushed if i let them. Nope. It was just as awesome as all the non big girls i had before then. But we were both on same page before during and after. There work arounds with that position as well. Along with others. Maybe try from behind that portion works regardless.
Height does not matter too much. Yea it can make some things more awkward but there are usually solutions to this.
Her looks, so she looks younger than she is, you know how old she is and you should see her that way. If someone else says something about you 2 being together, tell them to fuck off or let her yell at them.
What important is how she makes you feel and her mind. Sounds like she is really smart. Trust, not easy to find.
As for sex, what makes it so impossible? Have you 2 tried? What was the issues you 2 faced?
Positions can help you both find ways to work some of it out.
There is a site I recommend that has illustrations to help fund positions you never thought of but might be interested in. Badgirlsbible.com, check out the sections in the menu. And if comfortable, have her look at the site with you. Maybe she gets ideas on things to try.
Just an FYI, you’re still having sex just not penetrative sex. With all things, if there’s a will there’s a way. Patience, experimentation, lube, practice.
She can top you in the meantime.