My boyfriend, friend, and I are going to have our first threesome. I’m going to bottom for both of them. What are some things I should know ahead of time?

Some points to add..
We are all STD tested and completely negative
2 of us are on prep and have been for awhile

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  3. Ok here you go:

    – you need to come with safewords with your boyfriend, one for “we need to stop” and one for “I’m thinking about *you* right now”
    – no one wants to feel left out, so watch out for “moments” between only two people m
    – negotiate what you want happen beforehand, all three of you. Keep it simple at first. If it goes well, they will be back!
    – jealousy can swing up even if you’re an old pro and think, naively, you’ve conquered that emotion. Come up with a plan to handle it if it does arise, but don’t let it ruin a vibe.
    – make it chill and friendly, should be a fun night, not too much booze or weed but both can help.
    – safe sex, even if you’re tested or on prep. Schedule your monkey pox vaccine if you can.
    – don’t do eagerly do anything with the new dude that you don’t do with your boyfriend.
    – a bad playlist can kill the night, make sure that shit is on point!
    – don’t pull toys out of your sock drawer, give whatever you’re gonna use a nice wash.
    – this would the occasion you burn that $200 Tom ford candle

    Have fun dudes!

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