I (F22) have been talking to this guy (M23) over the phone for a little over a month now. I just got hit with the ”what are we?” question. I like talking to him and everything and we both want the same things in the future like marriage and to have a family. The only thing is I don’t have any romantic feelings towards him and I’m not that attracted to him. Also, I haven’t met him in person yet and he wants to go out this weekend. Would I be sabotaging myself by letting a good guy get away because I don’t feel anything for him right now and I’m not that attracted to his looks? Or is it selfish of me to continue this? Please give honest opinions !!
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Sounds like your unintentionally leading him on, just let him know you’re not interested
What you are doing is selfish, move on. You clearly aren’t attracted to him.