So I hooked up with my fwb recently got drunk a little and during sex he asked me where did he want him to cum at. Mind you we always use condoms so usually he finishes in the condom… I spontaneously told him my “mouth” and he did. It felt great seeing him barely controlling himself while he bust in my mouth and then swallow his warm load …my only thing is now I oddly feel connected to him…. I never swallowed anyone else but a long term ex boyfriend and that wasn’t until later on years into our relationship and it wouldn’t happen often. Why does swallowing a mans cum feels so intimate???
I never think about him that much after we hook up other times but this time I feel so close to him and intertwined. I’m pretty sure he probably had other girls swallow before but when I did it and opened my mouth he looked shocked and excited *too stunned to speak* I wonder if he feels that same way I do or something similar.. how do you guys/gals normally feel?
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Personally, it isn’t intimate for me. More like animalistic lmao. I have to be so horny that I feel it in my bones haha.
Swallowing is honestly something you’d do with someone you’ve been with for awhile or you can trust him.
Personally I’ve never had anyone swallow, only creampies but thats about it with a fwb.
In my experience its all about the eye contact and sharing a moment together.
Because you’re sharing a moment in the moment especially in the heat of passion.
For me, being sucked, licked, and cumming in a partner’s mouth is the greatest, most pleasurable feeling possible with sex. When they continue sucking and licking during and after my orgasm it is… amazing. For me, it is also a meaningful act. I’d say the majority of women, prefer not to have cum in their mouth, and an even greater majority prefer not to swallow. Many will stop and pull off as soon as they notice the first squirt, and this can be disappointing, because the moments during and after orgasm are the most sensitive and mind-blowing. I don’t really care whether or not they swallow, let it fall out of their mouth onto me, or spit my cum out, but I definitely prefer that they continue during and after, providing the most amazing experience possible for me. While swallowing is definitely optional, it is also a very meaningful, intimate act and deserves much thanks and praise. Extra Extra Bonus points if they put a finger or toy in my ass and massage my prostate, and milk me to death.
Oxytocin perhaps?
Yeah thats why its called love nectar
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Just the act of oral sex in my mind is more intimate than PIV whether she swallows or not. When I give oral sex to her, I want to make her feel special because I feel special when I receive oral.
It feels more personal to me. The eye contact, the moment. It feels so hot.
Why tf would I swallow someone’s nut if I don’t love them? Sorry but it’s really an important thing if i swallow someone’s nut. I have to be like in love w/ em.
It’s romantic, intimate, acceptance of the whole person
Swallowing your partner’s orgasmic fluid is intimate for two reasons:
1) it is taking acceptance to a much higher level. This is true also of receiving cum being pumped into the pussy, but taking it into the mouth and swallowing/ingesting it is a much more deliberate, calculated action, less passive act.
2) it is the act of actually tasting the partner’s orgasm, you can taste the proof in your mouth that you just gave this person the ultimate pleasure and made them happy.
I love the animalistic feeling of them holding my head while explode into my throat. But I don’t feel intimate. Intimate for me is to kiss while being fucked. That drives me crazy.
I imagine no one wants their parter to stop contact mid orgasm
Cause you are a the fruit bearer now
Unfortunately, I don’t think many guys view it the same way we do, am I wrong? 🤷🏻♀️
Interesting. I’ve had hookups and fwb and they’ve all swallowed. Not sure if that made them feel connected to me though lol
I think of swallowing as the ultimate acceptance. “I care about your pleasure *this* much…”
My wife said it’s the only time she controls me. She won’t waste a drop. She learned to swallow my cock. When her throat muscles tighten around my cock it’s indescribable. She will have an orgasm when my cum shoots down her throat. Why stray when you have that at home.
Doesn’t feel intimate to me at all 🤷♀️ just makes logical sense
There is an instant connection when you swallow your partners bodily fluid. It has to be someone I trust a 1000% though. It’s hard to describe but when I go down on her, the wetter the better. I’m not going to stop just to spit or wipe, I just keep going in order to satisfy her. When I swallow her, I feel an even deeper connection that makes me happy too that’s she’s happy.
Men this is a PSA -eat pineapples if you want the act to become more frequent. Don’t ask how I know… I’ve been with my wife for a decade and married for four years and counting.
The most intimate for me is when a guy kisses my while in the heat of the moment. But I think for guys, having their cum swallowed is very meaningful. If a guy kisses me while fucking me and makes me cum I always offer a facial or cum in mouth.
I’m a bi man and I swallow because it’s an act of submission. I love walking around with cum in my stomach, knowing that I am secretly a sub cock sucker
I feel like it is. It’s because of things you mentioned, vulnerability in that moment, as well as you accepting what his body creates.
It sounds like you have attached it to intimacy because you only did it in a long term relationship. People who do this with fwb or hookups may not feel the same way.
I’ve only found it intimate when someone does not usually cum from head but they did with me. If people cum that way all the time it loses it’s allure.
As a guy, I definitely feel special when she swallows. I’m married and monogamous so I haven’t been with anyone else in several years. But back in my hoe days when I slept around endlessly, if a woman would swallow, I tended to continue the fling. Something about cumming in her mouth is very special.
For me, I think it’s the intimacy of a partner putting their genitals in or near my mouth and then leaving a part of themselves with me. What could be closer than that? There’s literally part of my partner inside my body.
There’s just something incredibly accepting and personal as though you want to inhale and consume all of someone. It can communicate that everything about that person and all that comes from that person is welcome. You want to take them all in, you don’t want to miss a drop of them.
It can say, I want none of you to go to waste, I don’t want to miss a thing.
Intimacy isn’t about any specific act. Intimacy is about trust, shared vulnerability, and the connection that comes along with it.
Because you can only swallow when you can trust them. Disworthy men got salty cum
I won’t swallow my husband’s cum but I will some of my other partners. It’s a matter of preference. If the guy wants me to swallow, I will.