I meet this guy on dating app.. went on few dates was going well…. he is university student and he said he is going to be very busy with exams and assignments.. So, like everytime I text him he would say he is busy studying.
Its now three months since I have started talking and meeting him.. I am now left on seen for almost a week now which I though he must have been really busy studying. I follow him on instagram and just saw him posting story. We were even planning to go on next date. So, I dont know shall I text him?? Or just leave him
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Sorry, it doesn’t sound like he’s really interested. I mean a student shouldn’t be THAT busy. Maybe just send one last message leaving the ball firmly in his court and move on
Sounds like he is trying to fade rather than just tell you he isn’t interested. Block him on social media if it helps and move on.
I’d say it’s definitely possible to be very busy as a student, though it does depend where and what you are studying.
It may be the case that he is trying to ‘fade out’ as others have said, though it could also be the case that he doesn’t want rush into replying to you and say something lame/un-interesting. If he actually cares than that can sometimes cause people to take longer to reply, especially when they’re busy.
Generic “yeah lol” or “oh cool” type replies would indicate he’s not interested. When he does reply are the replies well though-out and considered? It might be worth giving him a shot for another date, you have nothing to loose by keeping channels of communication open. Ultimately, I’d say go with your gut.