As a man why cant we be more sexualized

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1. If you are an uber stud, you probably could find success on OnlyFans, or joining a touring chippendale group or as an escort or something. Also, there’s something to be said about women being shamed or harassed if they dare express sexuality or sexual positivity.

2. It’s a double edged sword for both parties. You might not get to feel as desired, but you’re much less likely to get SA’d or harassed.

   For what it’s worth, women often can’t or don’t put that energy out because there’s no excuse of “ah women will be women.” But lots of women are more than happy to put that energy into making their committed partner feel like the biggest stud alive.

3. Because men are the consumers of the sex industry. Women don’t need to pay for it. Because men come to them and pursue them.

   I’m happy to be desired by a sexual partners. The approval of total strangers buying my nudes has zero appeal to me.

   Approval from people who don’t know me, has no meaning or substance to me.

4. I have paid for porn and OnlyFans content from men, hired a male sex worker once and have enjoyed watching male strippers at burlesque performances.

   Women are not a hive mind and it’s strange to assume that we are.

5. i don’t need to pay for anything. i don’t even need to put myself out there and dudes will come to me. but i have a boyfriend and so he’s the only man that i’m going to make feel desirable.

6. Were you not around in the 90s when the ladettes went full tilt and the chippendale type groups popped up everywhere??! Women were screaming and feeling up men left right and centre!! It’s a shame that has died down but many women generally don’t feel safe anymore making any sort of advances just in case it goes too far etc…

   There’s plenty of females out there who love watching men and undressing them with their eyes!! 😁